Going slower brings us further. 慢一点,比较快。
Of late, "busy" seems to be a common pace. Busy with exams, busy planning holidays, busy sorting through a year's worth of emotions and making peace with both excitement and unease about a new year approaching.
In a flurry, we are left with half a month to go in 2025. Before we can take full notice, things continue to find their way, inching forward quietly, or not. Report cards have been received; Adults too, are taking stock of their own "assignments". Does hard work always equate with results? Or would luck suffice? And so, what does any of have to do with Well Played studio? The answer is - a lot more than you think.
A few weeks ago, during our usual walk around our neighbourhood, we saw that an old tree, the one which the children first discovered the "matchstick man”, along with several other trees around it, had been cut down. The “Little Universe” that the children once created from its fallen leaves, branches, and bits of bark, disappeared overnight. As adults, we felt a pang of loss. But the children simply said, Oh… then we’ll look for a new tree.”
In that moment, we bore witness to one of life’s simplest and most powerful lessons on impermanence: It isn’t about losing. It is about the ability to keep going after the loss. All effort will walk its path, to eventually reach its end point. Every unfortunate moment, too, will pass.
At Well Played, we’ve always believed:
All effort, will walk its path to eventually reach its end point.
Every unfortunate moment, too, will pass.
Instead of thinking of it as a setback,
perhaps this constant flow and cycle of change,
is a reminder of acceptance and balance?
Children do not treat change as an ending. Instead, they treat it as the beginning of the next chapter. Their natural sensitivity, curiosity, and openness - qualities that our world deeply needs, and yet is gradually losing - are what we hope to protect.
This is why aesthetic education has never been about painting the perfect picture. It is about learning to see new possibilities amid change; finding courage after loss;and practising gentle awareness in the everyday.
The tree may be gone, but a sense of perception grows in its place.
The session may end, but curiosity continues.
Children grow up, yet playfulness remains.
As the new year approaches, if you ask us:
What is effort?
What is reward?
What does it mean to live authentically?
Perhaps it is just a simple answer:
Keep feeling.
Keep creating.
And continue to maintain a sense of warmth and graciousness in this world.
Because in Well Played’s world -
going slower brings us further,
losing a little helps us grow more,
and as long as we remain curious and willing to play,
our lives, no matter how brief, will never feel stagnant.
最近,大家都在忙。忙着整理一整年的思绪、忙着准备或者正在享受假期、忙着期待又害怕迎接新的一年。转眼之间,2025 只剩下半个月。有些事我们还来不及意识到,它们就悄悄地向前走了。孩子们拿到了成绩单,大人们也在盘点属于自己的那份 “作业”。努力能不能换来收获?偶尔不努力,会不会也有好运气?
说到底,这些和画室“艺起玩”有什么关系呢?有的,很有关系。前几天,我们在小天地散步时,那棵曾陪我们一起发现“火柴人”的老树,连同周围几棵树,一起被砍了。孩子们原本用树干、落叶、树皮构筑的小宇宙,突然之间就消失了。我们大人看了有些感触,孩子看了却只是轻轻说:“哦,那我们再找新的树吧。”那一刻,也不小心体现了“无常”最简洁有力的一堂课,它不是失去,而是在失去之后,还能继续往前走的能力。
每一件努力过的事,会走向终点;每一件不幸的事,也会走向终点。
无常不是打击,而是提醒我们保持平衡。
孩子们从不把变化当成终点,他们把变化当成“下一次的开始”。
他们天然的感知力、好奇心、包容力,正是这个社会最需要、却也正在慢慢流失的东西。也因此,美育从来不是“画好一幅画”而已,而是学会在变化里,看见新的可能;在失去里,找到继续探索的勇气;在日常里,重新练习对世界的温柔感受。
树被砍了,但感知力长出来了。
课程结束了,但好奇心继续了。
小孩长大了,但玩心还在。:)
因为在艺起玩,
慢一点,比较快。
失去一点,也能长出更多。
当我们还愿意继续好奇,
继续认真“玩”,在这一趟短短的人生旅途不会一直都停滞不前。